For most of my life, I haven’t felt jealous in romantic relationships. But when I turned polyamorous, I felt jealous for the primary time, and it made me really feel insecure and scared. I was so ashamed and dissatisfied in myself for not being the “calm and cool” individual I’d all the time been. But by means of some arduous work, I’ve come to know that jealousy is only a feeling, and it doesn’t make me much less of who I am.